beach, im fried!

29 May 2007 13:45

i am burnt on my back, legs and arms. not too bad on the arms and legs but pretty harsh on the back. i went with my parents saturday then with my friend (the one that ditched me friday night) on monday. i told him how i felt and he remained silent and said nothing. just stared off. not sure if he was ignoring me or if he just dosn't know what to say.
boys just dont like sharing feelings.

and i got nailed by the waves monday and stuck in a tide but i got out on my own. that dumb lifegaurd shoudl have come in if he thought i was stuck. instead he gives me a speah about tides and the people thought i broke a rule. I'm really nto sure if i was stuck i just noticed the waves were strong and my swimming was not making me move.
and today i went to school and my shirt rubbed hard againts my back so it hurt.
my shoulders hurt a bit because of the hardcore swimming.
bought some new cloths at Kohls, two shirts and two pairs of shorts for $45. not bad and they look nice.

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by dsstrlght @ 29 May 2007 20:21

Oww! I remember a really bad sunburn about your age too.

You're so right about boys and feelings. It's part of that learning the compromise thing...

They need to understand that when they're just silent and stare off or ignore us, it only worsens every insecurity, every fear we have that they don't care. It would be so much better to acknowledge our feelings. We feel better when we think they've noticed that it hurt. It's way easier at that point to talk about it in a rational way or just apologize and go on than if every silence is prompting parts of your brain to cry and say, "he's just an insensitive jerk who hurts people without even noticing or caring." Yes, guys, that's how too much silence messes with your mind. We need our feelings acknowledged, not necessarily that you need to or can fix things but at least recognized, so we don't feel like insignificant dirt.
For our part as girls, we sometimes tend to make things sound so dramatic that the guy feels like he never had a chance or that whatever he says he's in trouble so we do have to learn to make it safer for a guy to say he's sorry and mean it. They act tough but inside they hurt more easily than girls. They just don't like to let that on but it's a researched fact that when they are hurt it's harder.
That and he's a teenaged guy, who can have the attention span of a fly. (Equal opportunity rant here: I'm the girl who didn't get along with most girls because they were such shallow emos and have always gotten along with guys and girls who think more like guys. There is nothing more shallow than your typical female. And no, Kelsey, you're not one of them, so don't worry, I'm not putting you down; you actually think, unlike a lot of girls. )
by borhan9 @ 29 May 2007 20:40

Not all guys will just stare off and ignore the girl ;) hint hint :)

but ya burning that bad is not good i hope it gets better. With blokes feeling are a thing that will take time for them to share. They need to be told its not a girly thing to share feelings. Some guys get better and learn to share and some dont and have issues most of their lives. Always know its not your fault or problem for that matter.

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