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12 May 2009 1:08

"When others demand that we become the people they want us to be, they force us to destroy the person we really are.
It's a subtle kind of murder"

Jim Morrison

Especially once you've tasted what life can be like in a nurturing, accepting, supportive environment, trying to resign oneself to a bleak existence of mere survival in a hostile place that denies you the right to be who you are is an impossibility. The one gives life, the other, death.

List of my blog entries

• devastation (17 Sep 2009)
• Good girls do it. Bad girls do it very well. (07 May 2009)
• 20,000 Project Brainstorm downloads! Thank you everyone! (19 Apr 2009)
• An open letter/rant. (08 Apr 2009)
• Friendship (21 Mar 2009)
• Pink Friday Support our schools (13 Mar 2009)
• thought (25 Feb 2009)
• more quotes (27 Nov 2008)
• a heartfelt thanks! (11 Nov 2008)
• MP3 Lizard, Afterdawn and promoting our own! (05 Nov 2008)
• Important Update! Shredder Search Voting date extended! (03 Nov 2008)
• Please help JJ win the Dean Shredder search! (02 Nov 2008)
• haha this is great! (01 Nov 2008)
• Vote No against Hate and Hypocrisy. Protect Real Marriages. No on 8. (20 Oct 2008)
• what matters (11 Oct 2008)
• 16,000! This site rocks! Thank you. (18 Jul 2008)
• I feel so honored! (17 Jul 2008)
• Happy meaningful 4th of July (03 Jul 2008)
• Michael Angelo in LA July 9th! Check it out! Be in the next video. (28 Jun 2008)
• Is It a Cheetah? (03 May 2008)
• Project Brainstorm #1 metal on mp3 lizard! (13 Mar 2008)
• T.E.D. quotes (03 Mar 2008)
• One more day! (08 Feb 2008)
• quotes (15 Jan 2008)
• Happy New Year 2008 (31 Dec 2007)
• Merry Christmas (25 Dec 2007)
• treasures (14 Dec 2007)
• I am so behind here! (29 Nov 2007)
• My thesis is done! (26 Oct 2007)
• new school year; fresh thoughts (23 Sep 2007)
• this is so wrong (02 Sep 2007)
• somewhat sidelined temporarily (24 Aug 2007)
• Thanks to everyone! Project Brainstorm 12,000 downloads! (08 Aug 2007)
• Teaching humor (27 Jul 2007)
• new milestone, special photo (02 Jul 2007)
• e plurbus unum or maybe an outsider to all. My complexity, my strength. (15 May 2007)
• Imponderables (08 May 2007)
• Why music? Little Kids Rock and the need for music education. (05 May 2007)
• New photos: Heaven and Hell and Megadeth (27 Apr 2007)
• Awesome milestone 10,000 downloads for Project Brainstorm! (12 Apr 2007)
• statistics (07 Apr 2007)
• Healing (27 Mar 2007)
• More fun in math class (26 Mar 2007)
• I love it (25 Mar 2007)
• Fun in math class (23 Mar 2007)
• you can lead a horse to water... (20 Mar 2007)
• Four years of stupidity and waste with the potential of many more to come (18 Mar 2007)
• recent quotes (16 Mar 2007)
• Emotional health , dysfunctional ties (14 Mar 2007)
• sad news (07 Mar 2007)
• future plans and present priorities (05 Mar 2007)
• Oscar pictures (24 Feb 2007)
• meditation (23 Feb 2007)
• more microsoft idiocy (23 Feb 2007)
• Project: Brainstorm reaches 9000 downloads! (08 Feb 2007)
• fully alive (02 Feb 2007)
• teaching (01 Feb 2007)
• It's sooo big!! (11 Jan 2007)
• reality (10 Jan 2007)
• I hate being sick. (09 Jan 2007)
• One year! (06 Jan 2007)
• priceless (03 Jan 2007)
• Merry Christmas (25 Dec 2006)
• Controversy- You gotta love it. (12 Dec 2006)
• Living simply, beautifully, happily (02 Dec 2006)
• natural born teachers (02 Dec 2006)
• true acts of love (01 Dec 2006)
• more quotes (29 Nov 2006)
• today's thought (29 Nov 2006)
• I liked this very much (26 Nov 2006)
• excerpt from my paper (25 Nov 2006)
• tired (24 Nov 2006)
• Competitive Greatness--- second in a series of blogs inspired by Wooden. (03 Nov 2006)
• fun! (02 Nov 2006)
• but so worth it : first in a series of blogs inspired by Wooden (01 Nov 2006)
• yay! good things. (28 Oct 2006)
• ok today officially sucked (bad language warning) (26 Oct 2006)
• Dissent (16 Oct 2006)
• overheard (08 Oct 2006)
• Howard Thurman (07 Oct 2006)
• IF YOU AREN'T OUTRAGED, YOU AREN'T PAYING ATTENTION!!! (01 Oct 2006)
• More Eleanor Roosevelt (27 Sep 2006)
• Master's degree coming up. Stay tuned. (15 Sep 2006)
• wise words (12 Sep 2006)
• What the Bush Administration Should Be Doing to Keep Americans Safe (11 Sep 2006)
• Government Abuses of Power Since 9/11 (11 Sep 2006)
• quote (09 Sep 2006)
• surgery went well (08 Sep 2006)
• My mom is in the ER having surgery tomorrow morning. (07 Sep 2006)
• funny (03 Sep 2006)
• courage (01 Sep 2006)
• Emotional Abuse checklist. (31 Aug 2006)
• self sabotage (31 Aug 2006)
• aim high (29 Aug 2006)
• bonds (28 Aug 2006)
• Stifled creativity, freed . (26 Aug 2006)
• quote (24 Aug 2006)
• Traveling sucks for musicians now (22 Aug 2006)
• quotes (22 Aug 2006)
• Great news! LA now has no country music radio stations! (19 Aug 2006)
• Yess!! sanity prevails! (16 Aug 2006)
• quote (16 Aug 2006)
• communication and real character (12 Aug 2006)
• I'm proud of her. (05 Aug 2006)
• quote (28 Jul 2006)
• I can so relate. (26 Jul 2006)
• to dare to live (23 Jul 2006)
• Charles Schultz (22 Jul 2006)
• Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn, (21 Jul 2006)
• Watch Steven Colbert take on NLRB tonight! (19 Jul 2006)
• doesn't it just figure! (18 Jul 2006)
• Thomas Jefferson (18 Jul 2006)
• People to People-- Lighting candles since 9-11-1956 (16 Jul 2006)
• It's better to light a candle than curse the darkness (16 Jul 2006)
• Bon Voyage! (16 Jul 2006)
• You know you're in California if... (14 Jul 2006)
• the power of words (14 Jul 2006)
• Quote of the day (11 Jul 2006)
• a really cool story (08 Jul 2006)
• earth (03 Jul 2006)
• :-) (02 Jul 2006)
• grading papers (02 Jul 2006)
• thought for today (30 Jun 2006)
• Summer school (28 Jun 2006)
• loneliness (26 Jun 2006)
• Friday fun (23 Jun 2006)
• Voter's Pledge for Peace declaration (22 Jun 2006)
• trusting again after mental/emotional abuse (21 Jun 2006)
• The hardest and maybe the most important life lesson I have learned. (19 Jun 2006)
• Einstein (19 Jun 2006)
• an open letter to the father of my kids for Father's Day (17 Jun 2006)
• so sad (17 Jun 2006)
• communication (16 Jun 2006)
• wisdom (16 Jun 2006)
• great advice (14 Jun 2006)
• Elisabeth Kubler-Ross (12 Jun 2006)
• giving hearts (10 Jun 2006)
• A perfect trip (26 May 2006)
• Apheresis, a very special gift (15 May 2006)
• What you don't know about Mother's Day (13 May 2006)
• I should have stayed home today. (12 May 2006)
• wow it stinks in here (10 May 2006)
• aargh! (08 May 2006)
• LA River a lot cleaner today! (06 May 2006)
• lol how true! (05 May 2006)
• Friends of the LA River- 17th annual River Cleanup day coming up May 6th (02 May 2006)
• sigh (02 May 2006)
• Neil Young's Living with War (28 Apr 2006)
• freedom to soar (25 Apr 2006)
• This is so sad. Please read and please think everyone. (23 Apr 2006)
• words (23 Apr 2006)
• Scary scary fire in my apartment building. (22 Apr 2006)
• today (21 Apr 2006)
• thoughts for the day (20 Apr 2006)
• Thank you Afterdawn!!! (12 Apr 2006)
• Hemorrhage (JJ's Fuel Audition!) opens at #2 Metal! (09 Apr 2006)
• dreams (08 Apr 2006)
• Afterdawn's celebrity rockers (06 Apr 2006)
• Flowers spoke the language of love (03 Apr 2006)
• mind blowing books: thinking outside the boxes (30 Mar 2006)
• The Zero Emissions Campaign (28 Mar 2006)
• ¡Sí, Se Puede! (27 Mar 2006)
• interesting (26 Mar 2006)
• ouch (25 Mar 2006)
• truths (24 Mar 2006)
• necessity (24 Mar 2006)
• lesson (22 Mar 2006)
• Entering a fourth year of war. Resistance (20 Mar 2006)
• Steven Vasari, 1921-2006 (19 Mar 2006)
• so tired. (17 Mar 2006)
• Codepink creates huge anti war image at protest. See my pictures. (13 Mar 2006)
• Wow. (11 Mar 2006)
• more research less war,,,our warped priorities (09 Mar 2006)
• Speak out against war in honor of International Women's Day (02 Mar 2006)
• I love Eleanor Roosevelt (28 Feb 2006)
• Quote (26 Feb 2006)
• meditation (25 Feb 2006)
• Love and Power; Words of Wisdom from C. G. Jung. (21 Feb 2006)
• Los Angeles at sunset (20 Feb 2006)
• Life, Love and Courage. (12 Feb 2006)
• THINK!!! (09 Feb 2006)
• an update and a question for the tech savvy (08 Feb 2006)
• An urgent call for peace read and tell your friends (07 Feb 2006)
• I hate sheep. (01 Feb 2006)
• something to think about (26 Jan 2006)
• Welcome to my world (06 Jan 2006)

User comments

• by flowers97 @ 01 Sep 2009 12:09

  Remember my old tagline? .. I would rather you hate me for who I am than love me for what I am not.
  
  How about this.. we combine the 3 gender definitions he she and it to get shi---- never mind.. that doesn't work

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