My Sister's Return :|

25 Feb 2007 19:29 (Edited: 25 Feb 2007 19:29)

I thought i would blog today while i am waiting for class to start. The time here is4pm and class starts at 5pm. Ive had the most hectic weekend my sister came back from visiting my dad and she was on another planet. Drives me up the wall when she does not think logically. I spent the week before her arrival fixing her computer and i had it working to a tee.

So when she came she wanted to go back the same day so later that night we had to drive her back to her dorm and her dorm is one hour away from where we live well at least its close to her uni. So when my sister brought her computer up she only brought her tower mouse and keyboard so i had to use my power cord to connect it etc.. No biggue.

So when we drove back we took everything she brought with her in regards to her computer. So when we got there and i was connecting things up (Well before that i walked in and it was a severe mess well the fact was that she had moved upstairs again the week before she left and had not organised her room) So anyways back to the story I was connecting everything and then i asked her where is her power cable that you connect from the back of the power supply to the power outlet.

So she couldn't find it. So guess what we had to do was to drive all the way back to our place and pick up the cord i took two just incase i was mad i did not want to drive 2wice again, but had to do it mum said so i had no choice. I was fumming. So got back in there and connected everything and this time i got everything working and she had her net connection but guess what she could not find her ethernet cable to connect from her computer to the line. So this time she was becoming frustrated i told her well you have to find it cause its here.

So after 10mins of looking and comming and going in and out of the room she came in and i was just sitting and playing solitare on the computer i had nothing else i could do and then she basically after that kicked both mum and i out of her room and indirectly told us to go.

For awhile now i have had it with my sisters attitude to her life and how she treats people. She has one self centred egotistical personality that she has got from dad and ot droves me batty.

When she is in trouble and needs help or if she is strapped for cash she knows everyone including my dad in this too. But when she has money and everything is good she does not know us at all. We owe like under $15,000 for the trip we took to india and the maintenance dad pays for her used to help pay that off also mum and i pay from our wages too. But now that she has moved out we are finding it a bit of a tight squezzee and everytime we bring the matter up she switches off. She has to learn to take reponsibility. She keeps saying she wants independance but she keeps crawling back to us when shit hits the fan.

Mum and i (well i have been on my last straw for some time now) Mum basically said she has to show some tough love to my sister and i agreed she has been shltred too long.

When will she learn. I told her in the car she has to become decisive and she said she cant make up her mind eventually because not everyone will wait around for you to decide. After this six to eight week period i am ringing dad and telling him im done and im ready to initate my own business.

I have to make that sacrifice that i have to live with all the kids which i love dearly.

I think its about time we all cut the safety net for my sister so she can learn what life is all about.

Sometimes being a youth worker and even having a Dr as a dad does not make any difference.

I just hope for her sake sje can get out of whatever she is feeling now.

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by dsstrlght @ 27 Feb 2007 15:58

That's really frustrating.

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